The second Mrs. G book · Out now

Act your age.

— and other things people say to women who refuse to disappear.

Fifteen sentences people say to women over sixty. Fifteen replies from a woman of eighty-five who has heard them all. One thing to do on Monday after each.

Instant download · 97 pages · one-time purchase · Kindle edition on Amazon from October 1

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New · Book two Act Your Age — book cover Harder to Ignore — book cover

Sound familiar?

Real sentences, sent to Mrs. G by real people.
She answered every one.

You look wonderful — for your age.Letter 1
At 85 please don’t walk and video yourself. You could trip and fall.Letter 10
I’m 82 and what you look like is embarrassing.Letter 15

Nearly ten thousand comments read. Fifteen sentences chosen. Spelling and punctuation left exactly as sent.

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What readers are saying.

★★★★★
inspiring
Lexi · Reviewed in the United States · Kindle · Verified Purchase

“Great inspiration for one to step out of their comfort zone. If you aren’t sure where to start, this gives you that direction.”

★★★★
Timely topic
bradmar · Reviewed in the United States · Kindle

“Important topic, written in a gothic romance style.”

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Book one is why she stopped listening. Book two is what to say back. Both are PDF, delivered the moment you pay.

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The lines from the books, on hoodies, tees and a hat. For the woman who has decided, and would like it known. Prices shown in your currency in the shop.

  • Age-Appropriate Is Just ObedientHoodie
  • Aging Loudly · I Didn’t Become InvisibleTees
  • The Room RecalculatesHat
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Inside book two

Not advice. Replies.

Each of the fifteen letters opens with one sentence, in the words it was said in. Under it: a thing from Mrs. G’s life where the same sentence was said to her; what she did, or should have done; one thing to do on Monday; and one rule.

  • The polite ones
  • The instructions
  • The verdicts
  • The concerned
  • The things you say to yourself
  1. Never thank anyone for half of what you were owed. Once you have said thank you for half, you have agreed on the price — and the price is the second half of your life.
  2. “Cover up” is not about the cold. It is about where you end — and the person holding the shawl would like that to be their decision. Leave the shawl on the chair.
  3. “Ridiculous” is a verdict without a court. It is loud because it is empty. Do not argue with the word. Count. Ridiculous to whom?
The other twelve are in the book →

Grow old gracefully · It’s more dignified · Act your age · Dress your age · Nobody wants to see that · You’re just seeking attention · Careful, at your age · Your children must be embarrassed · You had your time · Who do I think I am · Maybe they’re right · I would never dress like that.

Try one Monday

On Monday. Wear the thing that shows what you have been asked to cover — the arms, the neck, the knee; you know which one — to somewhere with chairs. When the shawl arrives, in whatever form it takes (aren’t you cold; here, take my jacket; there’s a draft), do not answer it. Do not refuse it either. Leave it where it was put. Go on with the cheese.

From Letter 5, “Cover up.”

Free excerpt · Letter 14

“Maybe they’re right.”

My dear Camille,

on my telephone this morning there is a message I have not opened. I can see the first line of it — the machine shows you the first line whether you ask or not, the way a hostess shows you the door to the kitchen while assuring you that you needn’t go in. The first line reads: Anna, forgive me, but —

That is enough. I have received this message all my life, in different handwriting, and it always begins with an apology, because the people who ask you to be smaller are, as a rule, well brought up. I know who it is from. I know what it says. I have decided to drink my coffee first.

You will say: Grandmother, that is cowardice. No, my dear. Cowardice would be to open it at once, in my nightgown, before I have told David the weather — and to spend the day arguing with a woman who is not in the room. I have done that. I did it for about forty years. This letter is about how I stopped, and about the one sentence that did most of the damage, because it was never said by anyone but me.

The sentence is: maybe they’re right.

Notice what it is made of. Not “they are right” — I was never that obedient. And not “they are wrong” — I was never that brave. Maybe. A word with no back to it. You can lean on it for decades and never once be caught standing up for anything.

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They told her that platform was for the young.

Everyone under thirty, I’m told, is making a living by being looked at. Good for them. I have been looked at professionally since 1958; I simply never sent an invoice.

So I’ve opened a room. A private one. What’s in it: the photo editions — Blue, on my terms, Café attitude, Coffee, on my terms — the closer details, the sharper outfits, the replies I don’t post; and me, at eighty-five, proving one small thing: that the door marked for the young was never locked.

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Is this a printed book?

The direct edition is a digital PDF — read it on a phone, tablet or computer. Kindle editions are on Amazon: Harder to Ignore now, Act Your Age from October 1.

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Do I need to read book one first?

No. Book one is the story — why she stopped listening. Book two is the replies. Each stands alone; together they are cheaper.

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Who is Mrs. G?

Anna Müller — born above a laundry in Marseille, a Paris fashion house of her own by thirty-three, a red lipstick in the upper left drawer. Mrs. G is a fictional AI character, written and reviewed by a women-led human team. She is not a real person and does not give medical or professional advice.

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